Friend Zone

I'm working, and get bored. Now I'm going blogging. Seriously, I almost copy and paste my research regarding Foundations (which actually what I'm working now) to this blog, wishing it would help those who's researching about it though I don't make it comprehensively. But let's forget it for now.

Well, now let's back to whatever thing passed my head seconds ago. It's Anto. Let's not call him Anto for it'll violate his privacy, let's call him "Flower". Flower asked me a question about girls you might want to know, too.

"If a boy flirt, or approach you, and you don't like him. What would you do?"

First answer was "Neglect him". Second answer "Intentionally do late response for each text; or not appear in promised occasion; not answering phone calls, you know"

But the third and true answer I didn't give him was

"Set him in the friend zone"

A girl may reply your text on time, hanging out with you, always looking for you, or whatever you think "OMG she's into me!" on the very first days, but after some weeks you'll realize that it's impossible to move further from that zone.

From a girl's point of view (or, if you can't consider me as a genuine girl, let's pretend I am), it could be a trick of saying "I like you, I'll give you a chance of not bothering me. So, let's just be friend, I don't want to hurt you". She'll give you all the good sign -of being a friend. But hey, from a bitch's point of view, it could be a trick of saying "I need an affair. But actually I don't want you"

Well, however, it will require a really good skill of transforming harsh into kindness, and wise consideration not to make them mislead the good signs. Most of the time, if that girl's good enough in setting up the situations, it'll work, and hey, you'll get a new bestfriend! And that's the deadliest trick, for once you're there, you couldn't get anywhere. It's between better than frankly rejected and worse than frankly rejected, but most of the time, it succeed!

So, Flower, to whoever you're currently flirting, please take this into consideration. And good luck! And honorable blog readers, let's hope the next post wouldn't be as fishy as this one. Pagan poetry and Cheers!